I entered Kindergarten at Cebu Eastern College. It's a Chinese, non-religious school. All the memories I had with Kindergarten was that I like Math and English but have a slightly negative attitude toward Chinese. I guess it was just my pre-preschool upbringing. My mother was fond of buying those educational tapes in English. I guess that was the reason why I have strong preferences for the English language. Also, at home, my parents speak only Cebuano and English to their children. They used Chinese only in occasional phrases and sentences. Sometimes I got so frustrated with my scores in Chinese tests that I purposely altered my scores on the answer sheet! This was so because I always got a reprimand from my mom when I got grades ranging from 75% - 85%! I guess mom is, was, and always will be hard to please. Type A personality (perfectionist) runs in her side of the family.
I couldn't remember any of my teachers anymore. However, a certain Mrs. Fong always comes up to my mind. Maybe she was the Principal or the Director. As I child I always fear my teachers so much - especially if they were Chinese! Chinese teachers are very strict and they always carry a big stick! Do you know what they have done to noisy children with those big sticks?
These were the good old days when the good foundation of Math and English finally paid off. The school now was divided into two departments - the English/Filipino teachers and the Chinese teachers and so were the honor rolls. I was consistently 1st in the English/Filipino department and consistently not 1st in the Chinese (my rank usually ranged from 2nd to 8th). The people who had good standings in the Chinese were those whose upbringing were very Chinese - obvious, isn't it?
I transferred to Sacred Heart School for Boys when I was in Grade 4. I definitely didn't regret this - even though this meant the end of my proficiency in Chinese. I thought I could've retain my fluency in Chinese since my family is Chinese - but I guess I was wrong. The ironies of life! I graduated grade school being at the top 5 of the class. I was the "Second Honorable Mention."
Teachers I can still remember were: Mrs. Bas, Mrs. Bihag, Mrs. Guerrero, Mrs. Ybañes of CEC and Ms. Quinain, Ms. Labrado, Mrs. Pepito, Mrs. Cabatingan, Mrs. Pisco, Mr. Genegaboas, Mrs. Flores, Ms. Yee, Ms. Pilar Lim, Mrs. Yap, Mr. Bas, Mrs. Culango, the late Mrs. Laput, Ms. Ybañes, Mrs. Lumakang (Ms. Choi) of SHS-B.
My high school days were definitely filled with funny experiences. My classmates at this stage were definitely set to the "teasing mode" that made my high school experiences filled with laughter. I remembered there were many name callings at that time. Examples are:
Pharaoh (Alexander Po), Dog (Anthony Yap, Alexandro Saso, and myself), Kaldero (Andrew Chan), Nerd (Don Tanedo), Elastic Boobs (Ryan Young), Bumbai (John Labella), Pig (Carl Trocio, Loumel Simbajon), Ulo (Kenneth Yap), Sissy (Edgar Lucero), General (Ritchie Neis), Lamok, Jerskee, Jarworski (Jerome Mokon), Alien (Christian Motong), Chicken (Christian Mercado), Kamatis (Oliver Wong), Pungkol (Sean Paul Tiu), Midyas (Francisco Mijares), Butong (Clark Gothong), Buktot, Hunchback, VeitCong (Vicor Chua), Patatas(Joel Co), Tupperware (Jacob Uy)... BTW, teachers were not spared of name calling.
My school mates also did a lot of other crazy things. For example, there was this honor student who got frustrated with his Math test score. In his frustration, he tore a piece of his test paper and ate it! Another person commits a lot of funny grammar errors like "Do not kick me, I am not an animals!," and "Why do you do not like Chocolates?" He also substitutes the words Mormon for moron and mortar for tartar.
However, I was still pretty serious with my lessons. I ended up graduating as the valedictorian of the class. Below is a list of my teachers.
Year Level
Subject
Teacher
Year Level
Subject
Teacher
First Year
Algebra I General Science Philippine History English Chinese Computer Religion Filipino
Mr. Vicente Mr. Endoma Mr. Mariñas Mrs. Laput Mrs. Shih Mr. Barrios Ms. Mancao Mr. Olalo Third Year
Geometry Chemistry World History English Chinese Computer Religion Filipino
Ms. Samper Mrs. Sanannam Mr. Cardones Mrs. Laput Ms. Shih Mr. Ong Mr. Sungcad Mrs. Acuña Second Year
Algebra II Biology Asian History English Chinese Computer Religion Filipino
Mr. Caga-anan Mr. Araneta Ms. Moreno Mrs. Laput Mrs. Gothong Mr. Barrios Fr. Pabayo Mr. Olalo Fourth Year
Algebra & Trigo Physics Economics English Chinese Computer Religion Filipino
Mr. Caga-anan Mr. Detosil Ms. Jagtiani Mrs. Latonio Mrs. Sih Mr. Ong Bro. de la Rama Mrs. Acuña
Also, I would like to acknowledge the Jesuit community for shaping me to be a man for others. These people are: Fr. Javier, Fr. Hernando, Fr. Nuñez, Fr. Montenegro, Fr. Carretero, Bro. Lachica, and Bro. Tremblay,
College was the time when I was really serious about life. I graduated with honors at De La Salle University in Manila. Living away from my parents was a new experience for me. So was living in Manila. Traffic was a pain in the butt - it still is in that city. Pollution was way too high. Rampant crime (especially kidnapping) cases. Worst of all, my high school nightmare became a reality - I had to speak Tagalog. But Manila residents speak even a weirder Tagalog than my teachers in Cebu. They speak Taglish or Tagalog-English. It a bastardized, hybrid language where one can use English verbs and conjugate it in the Tagalog way. The table below shows an example for the verb to steal.
Tense English Tagalog Taglish Past stole nagnakaw nag-steal Present steal nagnanakaw nag-ste-steal Future will steal magnanakaw mag-ste-steal root word steal nakaw steal
A lot of Filipino linguists discourage this. Their reason is that this type of conjugation is not natural and will inhibit the development of the English and Tagalog fluency of its speaker. However, they often get frustrated since the usage of this lingo is popular among all walks of life. What's even worst is that it is now promoted by movie and TV shows - featuring those "cool" teenagers speaking their best "cultivated" Taglish accent.
I met more people in college than in high school. I cannot possibly list all my acquaintances here but here are some of them:
Ferdinand See, Mervin Miranda, Varian Ojeda, Rex Aparri, Mervin Abayari, Elmer Yu, Ariel Amarillo, Alphonso Tan, Ireneo Bernardo IV, Grace Manay, Chiqui Manzanilla, Wong Fu Wing ( a.k.a. Kung Fu Master Wong Fei Hung), Wong Kam Shing, Edralin Chua, Adrian Dimaunahan, Willy Lee, Vhladimir Reyes, Joel Dy, Benedict Bueno, Hombrey Escalante, Charlie Ang, Jefferson Chua, Cherry Arranzanso, Michael Bravo, Neil Lim, Edson Pabilona, Paolo Pantola, Nancy (Chua?), Tinee "Ethelwolda" Tiongson, Ryanson Uy, Randoth Yuson, Allan Lampa, Rowell Gapuz, Dexter Zabellero, Hebert Zayco, Clifford Arriola, Kim Burata, Erwin Nisperos, and many others...
I definitely can't forget the following teachers as well:
Mrs. W. Baraoidan - ENGCALI, ENGCAL2; Ms. Susan Roces - ENGANAL, Mr. Lualhati - Philosophy, Ms. Beata Arce - MODCOMM; Mr. Belino - Associate Dean; Mr. Harry Francisco - GRAPONE, GRAPTWO; Mr. Kalaw - MECAONE, MECATWO; Sister Serafica Tolentino - RELSTWO; Fr. Danny Kroeger - RELSFOR; Bro. Sellner - CHEMONE; Fr. William J. Schmitt - CHEMONE (ADMU); Mr. Edgar Dona - STRENTH; Mr. Eric Siy - HUBEHOR; Ms. Rose Seva - QUAMETH; Ms. Jennifer Gutierrez - ENGECON; Mr. Roderick Yap - ENMATER; Mr. Aliento Estalilla - ELETHEO, ECEMATH, FEEDCON, LECTIV2; Mr. Oswald Sapang - ELEMLAB; Mr. Ronald Potenciano - ENGCOM2, SWIDLEC; Mr. Dave Karamihan - INDELIN, LECTIV1; Mr. Robert Caguingin - COMTHE2, MICWAVE; Dr. Felicito Caluyo - ECECADD, FEEDLAB, thesis adviser; Mr. Rommel Langomez - ELEDES1, ECELAWS, ELECSYD; Mr. Neil Macadaeg - ELEDES2, lab subjects; Ms. Antonette Camacho - lab subjects; Mrs. Analene Nagayo - BASETRO, COCIRFU, ADVETRO; Mr. Gutierrez - ELECTWO, ELECMAC, lab subjects.
A lot of these people might remember me as a quiet and reserved person. I can supply a lot of reasonable explanations why I was like this. First, the traffic had definitely made me mad everyday - even early in the morning. Second, the language barrier. I had a hard time expressing what I truly felt deep inside in Tagalog. I cannot even crack jokes with this language. Third, I treated my studies very seriously. Lastly, I could have expressed myself clearly in English but I know attitude of Filipinos regarding the usage of that foreign language - especially if spoken with its corresponding twang. Knowing this, I inhibited myself to use English during the first 2-3 years of my stay in Manila. I sometimes just kept quiet when I certainly can't blurt out all my ideas in Tagalog. Thus, people thought I was very reserved. I just switched over to English during the last year of my stay 'coz I can't take it no more! My head was already full of unsaid ideas!!!
JAN 1999